This week my answers to TMI Tuesday's spicy questionnaire talk about different and sometimes awkward places to have sex, my courage to start a sex blog and of what I think is the best ingredient to be good at making love. Enjoy!
1. Do you have a special place you like to have sex regularly?
My preference is always changing the place where our sex happens: thumbs up for strange, even somehow awkward places!
I feel like even a little change of scenario goes a long way: the kitchen, the shower, his car, a public bathroom. I need to admit the risk of being heard while moaning is one of my biggest turn-ons!
That said, as an ageplayer in the Daddy-babygirl lifestyle, my bedroom full of stuffies and cute, girly sex toys will always be a special place to have sex.
2. What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever done? The scariest?
The hardest thing I've ever done is starting a sex blog! I had to put a lot of work on this website to get it started while having a full time job as a bartender, and I will continue to: I want to keep it running the best as I can!
Luckily, writing about sex is also very rewarding: the meaningful relationships I could build with my readers and with sex-positive companies compensate me for all my efforts!
The scariest thing I do everyday is facing the stigma about female sexuality and our right to build for ourselves fulfilling sex lives. As a sex writer I am too often mistaken for a nympho or an "easy woman": but I'm simply a normal girl with my own values and a big desire for a world where sex is no more a taboo.
3. Are you annoying?
When I have my PMS, hell yes I'm annoying. I suffer from atrocious mood swings for a week or so before my period: during this time I can become awkward with my coworkers and needy with Daddy, while I'm usually not. I call him a lot more than usual asking for more cuddles and being reassured continuously he still wants to take care of me and protect me.
4. A person whom you’ve had “the hots” for a very long time tells you they are super attracted to you. You spend a few hours together and the sexual attraction is overwhelming. You are dying to have this person as your lover. At the moment you are highly aroused, and he/she wants to have sex with you in a church, would you do it?
Why not? After all, sex is something sacred in a certain way, at least in my opinion: it builds deep connections between human beings, and it's one of the most healthy things for our bodies and minds.
Obviously I would not if there's an evident risk of being seen by someone: but if it's an old, abandoned church, I'd go for it! I like making love in strange places and it would give me a feeling of adventure: I have always dreamed of doing it in an ancient Greek or Roman temple, for example.
5. While in the middle of the best lovemaking of your life, if your lover asked you to squeal like a dolphin, would you?
Of course I would: I think sex should be always playful and we should never consider ourselves too grown for games!
Me and Daddy actually give cute pet names to our dildos, get dirty like crazy with edible chocolate body paint and laugh a lot, and we will never be ashamed of that!
Bonus: Are you good in bed?
We all are! Sex is not "one size fits all" and a person who is excellent at it for me, can be a not-so-skilled lover for another person. The only thing we can actually do to make love better is to improve communication with our partner(s): honesty, consensuality and respect of each other's limits really are the foundations of great sex!
