Facesitting, what a complex kink that includes lots of different positions and play scenarios. I can say while blushing a little that I've tried it everywhere: on the bed, in the car, on a desk, and even on a massage inflatable mattress that is my favourite accessory for this kind of adventure, placed in my bathroom with only the light of candle and a luxurious kissable massage oil.
Needless to say, I LOVE my Daddy to let me facesit on him because it's a nice change of scenario from the usual-position for cunnilingus, even if it guarantees me the same mind blowing orgasm. It's also a little change in our usual caregiver/babygirl roles: while facesitting it's me the one in charge! It makes me let down for a while my little princess role to become a real vixen who knows what she wants sexually and has no fear at all to ask it!
But I also love the reverse thing: I don't know if a blowjob position like the famous "female prisoner" is considered facesitting, but I really enjoy it! It gives us a feeling of "wild and slightly brutal": it awakens fantasies of rough sex that have always been part of our sex life as a couple.
I think the key to a successful facesitting, as so often happens in sex, is communication and respect of the limits of each other: things can become uncomfortable while kneeling on your partner's face and even the receiving part could need a break: if who sits over you is placed in the wrong way you can feel like you can't breathe anymore! Here, our safeword is a must and we both always know when it's the case to stop the play session.
We never forget flavoured lube: I know not anyone likes it, but to us it simply adds a touch of fun and it satisfies our sweet tooth while not being bad for our health. Isn't it great? A bullet vibe for women or a masturbator for men also can be useful when you need a break from the gimmicky sex position without your partner losing their arousal.
For us facesitting isn't related to BDSM play but I know for many couples this is the case: I think it's because it gives you the sensation you're doing it exclusively for her/his pleasure. It's one of the duties of a good slave, isn't it? But, as a couple we must admit this: sometimes treating your loved one to a great, leg-shaking orgasm and getting aroused while seeing them squirm of pleasure is all you want.
So, I think I'll finally answer the question: If you were chair who would you like to have sit on you? My answer is, obviously: my Daddy and I'd like him to sit on me very often!
And you? Did you ever have facesitting experiences both in a BDSM play scenario and not? Did you like it? Tell me in the comments!
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