Do you remember that iconic episode from Sex and the City, where Charlotte takes her friends to a Tantric massage course to spice up her boring sex life? Well, that didn’t turn out to be a great idea: the weird instructor ended up having her male “model” ejaculate right on Miranda’s forehead!
But Tantra has nothing to do with that scene, quite the contrary. It’s an ancient, powerful series of techniques that can still be used today to awaken a couple’s sexuality.
Luckily for us, the German company Beducated created several online courses aimed to teach the secrets of Tantra even to the busiest couples. Today I’ll review the Tantric Massage Online Course, which is a compendium of two shorter courses about Yoni massage and Lingam massage. Are you ready to unleash the full power of your sexuality?
Finding the Lost Orgasm: The Purpose of a Real Yoni Massage
First of all, this is not just another course about how to please a woman. It is a course about the neo-tantra Yoni and Lingam massage techniques. As the sex coach Mariah Freya explains right at the beginning of the Yoni massage course, the purpose of this ancient technique is not orgasm per-se.
“A Yoni massage has very little to do with an erotic massage”, says Freya. “because an erotic massage has only one main intention”, i.e., the “happy ending” all women expect during sex. On the contrary, the Yoni technique aims to help women discover their sexual potential, which obviously leads to better orgasms and more pleasure during intercourse.
In fact, as I complete the first sections of the Beducated course, it’s very clear to me that a Yoni massage is completely different from what I’d call a vaginal massage, i.e., that sex act called “fingering” in the world of porn. Other than getting pretty scientific about the anatomy of a Yoni, the lessons focus on consent and connection between the partners.
One of the most interesting discoveries I made during the course, however, is that a vagina owner can choose to have a “Yoni self-massage” as well. In fact, almost half of the lessons are dedicated to this practice. And no, it’s not the same thing as masturbation, but rather a fascinating way to awaken your sexuality even if you don’t have a partner at the moment.
I also learnt that the way we breath plays a fundamental role in awakening your sexual potential through a Yoni massage. Who would have thought that breathing could be so sexy?
Connecting With Your Partner: The Lingam Massage
But Tantra is not just for women. Beducated’s course also includes a full section about how to massage the Lingam, i.e., the penis. Given what I’ve said above about the Yoni-related lessons, you expect that this is not about handjobs, right?
I’m very pleased to see that the course actually debunks a couple myths about male sexuality. First of all, the lessons teach how to please the Lingam both when it’s soft and erect. In an era of toxic masculinity, when we’re taught that sexual pleasure can’t happen without an erection, this is definitely a huge step forward! “In a Lingam massage we worship the whole of the penis”, says Freya, “whether it’s erect or soft.” Secondly, the Tantra coach busts the old wives’ tale that a bigger penis equals more sexual satisfaction for the woman. She explains that, exactly like penises, vaginas come in different shapes and sizes. For this reason, a penis that is too big in comparison with the partner’s vagina might cause pain during penetration.
Lastly, some of the lessons focus on prostate massage, which is still seen as a taboo in our society because it involves anal penetration. Contrarily, the course focuses on the benefits of this tantric practice on the health and sexual wellness of penis owners. I also like that one of the lessons explains in detail how to overcome “potential blockages” that prevent a lingam owner to fully enjoy this unique experience.
Of course, there’s a section dedicated to “Lingam self-massage” as well. I think it’s a proof that even men can have some sexy fun without the need for all the vulgarity we see in mainstream porn!
Overall, the course is very useful for couples who want to add some spice into their bedroom, or are simply curious to learn more about Tantra. The lessons come in video format, but are accompanied by explanative .pdf documents and cheat sheets as well. Needless to say, the course can also be completed from a mobile device, such as a tablet.
There are also a couple bonus audio meditations, and the opportunity to join Beducated’s private Facebook group to connect with Freya and the other participants.
At the time of writing, the Tantric Massage Online Course is available on Beducated.com for $129.00.
Sponsored post. I received access to the online course for free, courtesy of Beducated.