Once upon a time, Oriental ladies only unveiled their beauty to the man they were in love with. They covered their face in public with sheer veils, but when it was time to go to the bedroom with their beloved husband, they finally let out their gorgeous shiny black hair and their luscious lips ready to be kissed.
Today, instead, I feel most women are so obsessed by looking perfect, skinny and trendy at the eyes of everybody, than they forget that the most important place to feel sexy and attractive is at home with your significant other. Many girls spend hours and hours putting their make-up on in the morning only to remove it when they go sleeping with their guy, isn't that a shame?
Then we also forget to make us feel beautiful just for ourselves. Why wearing the most gorgeous, fashionable outfit for the eyes of others while under your clothes you have those granny knickers you hate and that make you feel like Ugly Betty?
I dare you to never having thoughts like, "I will shave only the part of my legs that stays out of this dress, because who's going to see me under the skirt?" Until suddenly your boyfriends calls to see if you want to go out for dinner in half an hour, so you run in the shower with the first poor quality disposable razor you could get your hands on, making a mess with your skin?
Then obviously, if you like to keep your body hair, that's completely fine! It should be your choice based on what makes you feel more confident in your own (naked) skin. Yes you heard me: you don't want to do what you think makes you appear more attractive and fashionable to the eyes of others, but what you feel enhances your sex confidence both alone and with your partner.
I said in some of my lingerie reviews that I'm the classic "low manteinance" girl always in sweatpants and sneakers, but if people knew what I wear under that gym clothes...usually sexy lingerie to kill: catsuits, fishnets, open crotch knickers...that because I don't feel the need to turn heads down the streets, but to feel sexy, kinky and daring to boost my libido and my Daddy's one.
That said, that's why I think pussy beauty makes sense: why don't we take care of the most intimate part of our bodies? All pussies are beautiful of course, and they come in all sizes and shapes: but that's just the reason to pamper ours just like we do with our face!
Taking care of our skin down there helps us getting more confidence with our own bodies, feeling more confident when naked and overall feeling sexier, which has a positive effect on our libido too.
So, if you like your pussy shaved, keep it smooth and free from ingrowns and razor bumps. Most sex shops sell intimate shaving gels and creams that are perfect for intimate regions too: my favorite ones are of high quality brands like KamaSutra and Dona by Jo. Also, when I have more time I use an electric razor: you get a little less close shave but it's more delicate on the skin. After shaving avoid wearing tight underwear and trousers for a couple hours: friction on just-shaved skin is one of the first causes of ingrown hairs!
If you like to keep hair down there, you can always trim them to your liking, creating endless styles (be your own pussy hair stylist. Pun intended).
Also, skin and mucous membranes of your pussy need calming and moisturizing products too and the first brand to produce an Intimate Care Collection is the austriac HOT: I've not yet tried the products from this range, but I hope I will in the near future!
I would suggest not to use intimate deodorants instead. If they aren't acidic enough they could mess up with your beloved coochy's pH balance.
Last but not least, wear your favorite lingerie! Choose something that makes you feel a real vixen and wear it even just for yourself, under your clothes or on a date with your favorite sex toy!
What do you do for the beauty of your pussy? Have you got a special trick or a product i don't know yet? Let me know in your comments!
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