Last month, since the reviews' section of my blog was growing at an unexpected rate and I was very busy testing and writing about so many sexy products with my Daddy, I simply didn't have the time to participate in the wonderful initiative #30DaysOrgasmFun launched by Tabitha Rayne. It would have been great fun with all those sexy press samples to test!
So, as soon as I read on Twitter that this great challenge would be back for #MasturbationMay, I was over the moon to have a second opportunity to be part of it!
I'm obviously doing it for my physical and emotional well-being, as if it was a fitness habit to slowly implement in my everyday life, but that's not all. For Masturbation Month I want to be an example of sex-positivity, freedom and empowerment for all women, teaching them that an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away, and that we have everything to gain from reconnecting with our own bodies, getting to know them better. I'm no sexologist or therapist, but as a blogger I feel that I can actually play a role smashing the taboos and promoting a healthy sex life for everyone.
I must admit that, being in a long distance Daddy/little girl dynamic, too often my sexual self awakens only on those weekends when I can be with my partner.
90% of the time we test my press samples together and, during working days, I just edit photos and tidy the notes we took together during the test, turning them into an actual review. My days are so busy I barely notice my vagina is still there, exactly as I left it the last time we had sex.
Sometimes I really try. I bring to work in my backpack the Anal Jewel Silver Star Amethyst from MEO or the Lelo Mia, hoping that hiding a sexy secret from my boss' eyes would finally turn my fantasies on, only to forget about the sex toy in favor of dishes to wash and customers to serve. At the end of the day, I find the luscious velvety storage bag with the stimulator inside, buried under what remains of my lunchbox.
It's not an issue with my libido: it's simply because, to feel turned on, I need intimacy. My sexual desire belongs to the babygirl side of me and it comes mostly from emotional connection. Needless to say, arousal without Daddy is a challenge.
That's why, to celebrate this first week of #30DaysOrgasmFun, I made a resolution to make 'that kind of call' every evening to Daddy. After all, Masturbation Month celebrates the act of masturbating with a sexual partner, too.
I talked to him in total honesty about why I wanted to take part in this project and, when I saw that he was more than excited at the idea, my motivation grew even more ;).
So, on the 1st of May, we got intimate from a distance. I wore my Abierta Fina Lingerie Set as if I was going to an actual date, and kept a good variety of vibrators on hand.
Without contact with his penis, I got a mind blowing, body-shattering orgasm I didn't expect. So, the first day of my challenge has been a real success.
The following days I had my train reservation booked to go visiting him. To my surprise, having sex after that daring long distance encounter, was truly better than other times.
Perhaps changing a little from the usual routine brought more spice into our already exciting love life: what's sure is that we were so unable keeping our hands off each other's bodies, we ended up having a quickie in the railway station's restrooms. How kinky and how crazy we are...
Another thing that Masturbation May taught me is that, when alone, I can satisfy my need for intimacy with the right romantic, sensual couples' porn. By watching on the screen sex acts that remind me about the last visit to Daddy, my sexual fantasy motor goes on, the Satisfyer is finally switched on and I get to feel more in tune with my body by having orgasms more regularly.
The key to get in the mood is simply to find what works best for me. Hope all my readers follow this adventure of mine: search the hashtags #30DaysOrgasmFun and #MasturbationMonth on Twitter for updates!
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