We all must admit anal porn is one of the genres where we find the most unrealistic depictions of female pleasure. Huge gaps, female performers with anal prolapse and extreme penetration can be fetishes for some viewers, there's no doubt: however, I think it's important to remember (and, for younger and least experienced users, to actually understand) that this is not how booty sex is going to work in real life.
Obviously porn is fiction and as such it's not to be considered a depiction of reality: exactly like you can expect not to be able to fly as Superman does, you also should accept you're not gonna be able or want to have rough anal sex with that incredibly big boner you see on the screen. That's absolutely normal!
However, there's a new wave of female erotic movie creators who want to depict sex as it is in real life, between real people with their regular bodies and in full respect of performers' likes and dislikes. Anna from FrolicMe.com is one of them, and I'm very glad to see she has dedicated some of her sensual, glamour movies to anal sex.
As often happens while I browse through the Frolic Me website, it was the erotic story titled 'Anal Adoration' to catch my attention before the movie itself. This beautifully written piece of erotica is by the professional English author Nicci Hayden: it's about the sexy last-minute getaway of a young, rich married mom who casually meets a handsome trucker and invites him to her luxurious hotel room...
The story really moved something inside me: the strong personality of the protagonist who knows exactly what she wants, the sense of adventure, and the slow, carefully dosed sexual tension build-up convinced me to watch the scene too, and to make it the object of my next Frolic Me review.
From the moment I hit 'play' everything contributed to give the scene a glamourous feel: the stunning black lingerie of the protagonist, played by Saskia Daniels, the elegant flogger, and her 'Fifty Shades of Grey' style mask.
I knew I was not gonna see exaggerated anal gapes here, and that I wasn't gonna hear Saskia moan without real pleasure, since I already knew Frolic Me's ethics from a previous experience on the site. But I could still be amazed at how sensual anal play is in this movie: the focus is not on the 'penis-in-anus' event: here every other sexy act that mainstream porn would categorize as 'foreplay', really counts.
The soft BDSM scene at the start, the play session with a stylish jewelled butt plug, plus fingering and cunnilingus, are not appetizers while waiting for the main course: they are all an important part of the meal, that contributes to its variety of flavors.
As a sex toy nerd, I love seeing my favorite accessories used in porn, but I don't see often this happening in hererosexual adult videos. Here Anna brings the sex toys out from lesbian porn that often seems the only genre in which they appear, and she shows the performers using the pretty, absolutey regular-sized butt plug as it's been projected to be used: for a normal couple's fun. Not as a proof for the viewers of how big of a dildo the female performer can take.
Also, I hope this video can introduce many couples to the utility of a quality silicone butt plug before anal sex, to slightly dilate and relax muscles to a point where actual intercourse is more comfortable. My only note is that I would have wanted to see a squirt of lube on the plug instead of Edward Ross' saliva: less knowledgeable users may not know that our spit tends to dry very fast and that's why it's not a good substitute for a quality sex lubricant.
Overall this is a scene I loved a lot and I see it particularly appropriate for the adventurous couples out there: watch it here.
I got one free month of subscription at Frolic Me in exchange for my honest, unbiased review of some of the movies. Thanks Anna! Unaffiliated post.