Thoughts about my #30DaysOrgasmFun experience: penis-in-vagina sex is overrated

My first two weeks participating in #30DaysOrgasmFun definitely taught me a lot: one of the things I discovered by forcing myself and my long distance Daddy Dom to have at least one mutual masturbation Skype or phone session per day, is how much penis-in-vagina intercourse is overrated.

Seriously, you don't need your genitals to come in contact with each other to get horny: the brain is truly our most important sex organ. To me, simply the thought of that virtual date in the evening has been enough to keep butterflies flying in my stomach all day long.

I could learn that a little fantasy goes a very long way when it comes to sex.

During this experiment, I am noticing that sexual desire works like a muscle: the more you exercise it, the more it moves in a spontaneous and natural way. The more you leave it inactive because of stigma, taboos and guilt, the more difficult will be to move it again when you'll want to.

Also, in the last two weeks we've been forced to become loud about what we like or dislike in the bedroom (or in whatever other place we had decided to get naughty): when you can't have actual sexual contact, we found that the most intimate way to spend time together is to talk dirty, telling the other person what you would like to do to them, or trying to imagine a naughty quickie together. And the best part is that our new certification as 'Dirty Talk Specialists' came in very handy when we finally could be together: being able to voice our sexual likes and dislikes without euphemisms or embarrassment led to a more satisfying encounter for both of us.

To be honest, vaginal intercourse was just a little part of all those sexy fantasies we were coming up with: let's say it was a 20%. Sexual acts are so varied and diverse we just couldn't keep on daydreaming only about one of them: as a result, when we could be together, we ended up trying new things we would never have imagined before!

Obviously being a sex toy tester, which means having a fair variety of colorful dildos and powerful vibrators in handy, added a lot of fun to our #MasturbationMonth celebration: all the laughs we had thanks to the fancy shapes of his IMTOY Manta Ray and my Dodil, during a recent Skype session, is enough to proof that adult toys are not dangerous or harmful to a couple's sex life, quite the contrary.

We want to be an example for all the couples out there, to have fun with each other without shame or guilty feelings: all the different ways you like to have sex are fine, alone or together, with or without penetration.

Human sexuality is not one-size-fits-all and we want to encourage you, our loyal readers, to get more in tune with your own bodies, and to recognize that masturbation is a great way to achieve this goal.

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